Relationships of all sorts bring up complex emotions tied to esteem, perspective, individual needs and loss. And just like these interpersonal circumstances, our responses to the relationships of others are just as varied and nuanced. In particular, the phrase “their loss,” has become a common refrain to console those after a pitfall or difficult experience. What do these words suggest about our views on relationships? Do we ever use the opposite language to speak in terms of a “gain”? And how does this frame the recipient of these words in an infallible light or as a prize?